Set status to deleting even when external resource does not exist

Updates the status of managed resource to be set to deleting in the case
where an external resource does not exist, but we fail to unpublish
connection or remove finalizer.

Signed-off-by: hasheddan <georgedanielmangum@gmail.com>

pkg/reconciler/managed/reconciler.go

@@ -627,9 +627,9 @@ func (r *Reconciler) Reconcile(_ context.Context, req reconcile.Request) (reconc
 
 	if meta.WasDeleted(managed) {
 		log = log.WithValues("deletion-timestamp", managed.GetDeletionTimestamp())
+		managed.SetConditions(xpv1.Deleting())
 
 		if observation.ResourceExists && managed.GetDeletionPolicy() != xpv1.DeletionOrphan {
-			managed.SetConditions(xpv1.Deleting())
 			if err := external.Delete(externalCtx, managed); err != nil {
 				// We'll hit this condition if we can't delete our external
 				// resource, for example if our provider credentials don't have