This is a bit complicated to use in Docker (because `io_uring` has a long and storied security story), but it is a new feature of 18+ that we should probably explicitly support for users who want to jump through the hoops to use it despite the security risk.
Additionally, this re-alphabetizes our `--with-xxx` flags.
When we added these lines, we needed newer files than PostgreSQL had upstream, but the situation has changed and we were pinned to a specific commit from 2017 - the _oldest_ PostgreSQL release version has a file from 2020.
* Remove inaccurate references to corruption, remove SEGTERM suggestion, update information links to current docs. Postgres is carefully designed such that data is not corrupted on crashes or unclean shutdowns - the main tradeoff is that WAL replay is needed on startup. In practice, SIGTERM can cause unexpected long delays to shutdowns - often during maintenance windows - so best not to actively suggest this. The links back to official Postgres documentation seem sufficient.
Tianon Gravi