all: Update netty to 4.1.77.Final and netty_tcnative to 2.0.53.Final
Also switches to a non-release version of rules_jvm_external to allow Bazel build to work with artifact classifiers.
maven_install is strongly superior to previous forms of grabbing dependencies
from Maven as it computes the appropriate versions to use from the full
transitive dependencies of all libraries used by an application. It also has
much less boilerplate and includes dependencies with generated targets.
In the future we will drop the jvm_maven_import_external usages and require
maven_install, at which point we can swap to using the `@maven' repository and
no longer depend on compat_repositories.
Fixes#5359